Families are micro level societies in a huge cluster of societies in different sizes and amplitudes. As a society, families have patterns and rules that make each one unique. The primal reason humans got together as societies was survival. Plato says that society exists because of human beings’ lack of self-sufficiency.
Since we depend on each other to live, we end up caring for each other’s lives and wellbeing. Even if we don’t have much in common, family teach us, from such an early age we can´t even choose not to learn, to care for each other. You end up caring for people “because” you know them either for their entire lives or for your own entire life. This is a huge deal. In case of parents, children and siblings (or any other type of nuclear family structure), you not only know them for long, but you share(d) a big chunk of life. You know how they act when they are sad, when they are angry, when they are happy. You’ve seen it all, or at least mostly. You have a lot of information about those people, and once you know people in more deep ways, you tend to build caring feelings. Human beings share some basic struggles, so we relate.
It is hard to decide if such learning is good or bad to each individual, since the “caring feeling” may become a burden. But there is no doubt that the emotional knowledge we acquire as a family member can be widespread to larger groups, like our friends from school or neighborhood colleagues. Family treatment being reciprocal, trust is built over time.
The concept of family benefits not only the members involved, but the society as a whole. We should actively try to maintain the cohesion even among the more distinct group members.
How do you think the concept of family is related to a better life? Please comment!
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